The application

Tell uswhat’sactuallygoing on.

Three hours of private work on the two of you and the thing you haven’t been able to move through together.

We read every application ourselves, so skip the polished version. Tell us what’s really happening, what you’ve tried, and what you want to be different.

If it looks like a fit, we’ll send you the next steps to book your session.

$3,0003 hours · ZoomFull refund if it isn’t worth it

don’t worry, we’ve heard worse

Don’t clean it up for us.

The messy version is the useful one. Fragments are fine. So is “I don’t know.”

Takes about ten minutes. One of you can fill it out; we’ll hear from both of you in the session.

The two of you

Your name Your partner’s name Your email Your partner’s email (optional) Phone number How long have you been together?

What’s happening

What’s happening between you that you want to change?It might be the fight that keeps coming back, the distance that’s grown between you, or something important you haven’t been able to say. What does it look like in your life together? What have you already tried, and what still hasn’t changed?

What you want

If this session made a real difference, what would be different between you? Why does this matter to you now? How does your partner feel about doing this together?You don’t both need to arrive convinced. We do need both of you to be willing to participate. How did you find us?

Before you submit

We both want to participate and can set aside three uninterrupted hours on Zoom, together in the same private room. We understand the session costs $3,000, and we’re prepared to make that investment if it’s a fit. We understand this is relationship coaching and education, not therapy or mental health treatment. Our relationship is physically safe, and neither of us is dealing with an untreated addiction.

If physical safety or untreated addiction is part of your situation, please contact us before applying so we can help point you toward appropriate support.

Stay in the loop · optional

Yes, add me to your email list. I want to be the first to know about upcoming Transformative Listening retreats and workshops.

Emails from Ilya & Julia at Transformative Listening. Unsubscribe anytime. Applies to your email only, not your partner’s, and doesn’t affect your application. Privacy Policy.

We’ll be in touch within a few days.

Got it. We’re reading.

Thank you for not cleaning it up.

We’ll read your application ourselves and get back to you within a few days. If it looks like a fit, you’ll get the next steps to book your session.

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